關於 listen to my word愛你 ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

【一念桃花開】(English writing below)
The Peach Blossom Blooms In a Single Thought

我年少時就有暗瘡的問題， 因為使用藥物，後來皮膚就變過敏。

無論是開架或專櫃，不是很多護膚品牌適合我，，而很慶幸的，Innisfree對我的肌膚還蠻管用的。

昨晚，我到Innisfree的專賣店把用完的護膚品空瓶拿去回收。

然後，就在店裡逛，想找我慣用的寒蘭睡眠面膜，可是怎麼找都找不到。我轉頭向身旁熱情的服務小姐詢問。

她便跑去請教一位在收銀台的較資深同事。

得知斷貨了，店員也不曉得幾時會來貨。

後來，我選擇買綠茶睡眠面膜，因為在網路上有讀到不錯的評價。

當收銀員把產品交給我時，她叫我稍等。接著，她找尋了一些贈品送給我。這是許多韓國護膚美妝品牌的一貫作風。

我拿著贈品離開店時，對收銀員的舉動忽然恍然大悟。

我買了一個睡眠面膜

收銀員又送我兩款睡眠面膜的贈品。

這是明智之舉 - 給予客人她會用的產品，而不是一些她可能不會使用的產品。

畢竟，不是每個女生都會在自己的臉上，抹上幾百種護膚品。

其中一個贈品是我剛才在尋找的寒蘭睡眠面膜。

這真是暖心之舉 - 記得客人在尋找的護膚品。

她不知道我是否是這產品的回頭客，或是第一次購買。但重點是，她不但記得我的詢問，還特別贈給我小樣品，讓我這心願得以滿願，不至於白跑一趟。

她這小小的舉動，就是佛法上所說的佈施。

佈施最基本的用意，就是付出自己，解決別人的困厄，給予別人快樂。

盡的心意越多，種的福根越深，若再加上歡喜心去做，那未來際得到的敬愛，必會廣大無邊。

很多人以為佈施這字是用在外人身上，可不知我們身邊的人也一樣仰賴我們的佈施，心靈才能得到愛的滋潤。

我客人當中就有很多這樣的例子：

老公嫌太太忙著孩子，無暇聆聽他的心事，沒有支持他的夢想。

太太嫌老公變了心，沒有像熱戀時那麼地愛護她，照顧家庭。

爸爸嫌兒子不長進，老是打電動。

兒子嫌爸爸不了解他的喜好，總是逼他做他不喜歡的事。

媽媽嫌女兒沒大沒小， 女兒嫌媽媽規矩多。

老闆嫌員工不夠盡責，員工嫌老闆吝嗇。

這些問題的起源，都是來自於兩人計較佈施，或不願佈施。而物以類聚的原理，就會吸引了自己一樣的人。

在家裡，我們需要桃花，才能得到家人之間的愛戴和和睦。

在外，我們也需要桃花，做起事來才會比一般人容易。

而桃花的大小，來自於你能佈施多少的愛。你佈施的心態，也決定了你福報的大小。

我們的周遭都是佈施的機緣，所以不可能沒有機會佈施。

小的佈施，是在家。走出家門，更有大把佈施機會包圍著你，東南西比中，360度你轉哪一個度數，都有佈施的因，是看你怎麼去把握。

所以沒有所謂為什麼命會這樣，而是你沒有把握機會。

嘗試釋放自己，去擁抱一個更有愛的你，更有愛的生活方式。當你能把這快樂帶給很多人時，你會發現你生命的無限潛能，而重新愛上自己。這也是你能給予你自己最大的敬愛，最大的桃花之一了。

p.s. 若不知何謂桃花，可觀看我這影片：https://youtu.be/ECUW9F8Cybg

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I have acne skin as a teenager, and somewhere along the way, my skin turned sensitive.

Not many skincare brands, drugstore or over-the-counter, work for me, and Innisfree, to my delight, is one that works

So just now, I dropped by Innisfree to return my empty bottles (in my Stories)

I then browsed the shelves, looking for the Jeju Orchid Sleeping Mask. It was not there. I turned to ask the enthusiastic salesgirl beside me.

She went off to ask the more senior staff, who was behind the cashier counter.

No luck, it was out of stock and they had no idea when it would be back.

I ended up buying the Green Tea Sleeping Mask, having read great reviews online.

As the cashier passed me my purchase, she told me to wait for she wished to give me some samples to try, the de-facto practice of many Korean skincare and makeup brands.

When I left the store with the samples in hand, it dawned on me what the cashier had done.

I bought a sleeping mask.

She gave me two other sleeping mask varieties.

That’s smart - giving what the customer uses, and not some product that that customer may not use.

Not every girl plaster a million products on her face.

One of the samples was the Jeju Orchid Sleeping Mask!

That’s heartwarming - to remember that the customer was looking for.

I could either be keen in that mask, or a repeat buyer. But the key is, not only did she remember my inquiry, she gave me a sample that would not make this trip a wasted one.

This small act of consideration from the sales person is what we called Giving, in Buddhism.

The more thought you put in your giving, the more good fortune you are planting for yourself. When you give with happiness, then the love and respect you receive in future will be vast and boundless.

Many people mistook that the word Giving is to be used on outsiders. They are unaware that the people around us also need our giving to nourish their hearts.

There are many such examples in my clients:

The husband feels that his wife is too occupied with the children. She does not make time to listen to him or support his dream.

The wife rants about her husband having a change of heart and does not care for her, or love the family as before.

The father finds fault with the son's constant gaming, and scolds him for not being hardworking.

The son thinks the father does not care about what he likes, and always forces him to do things that he does not like.

The mother says her daughter is rude to her, while the daughter complains that her mother has too many rules.

The boss sees that his employees are not doing their best, while the employees sees their boss as a stingy man.

All these problems arise from two persons being calculative in giving, or unwilling to give. Given the principle of "Birds of the same feather flock together", you inevitably attract a person who is similar to yourself.

In the confines of our home, we do need Peach Blossom Luck, so that there will be love and harmony among our family.

Beyond our home, Peach Blossom Luck is definitely a must, for that will help us to get things done easier.

The amount of our Peach Blossom Luck is dependant on how much love you give out. The attitude you have when giving will decide the size of your good fortune.

There are plenty of opportunities for us to give, so there is no such thing as no chance to give.

Small acts of giving starts from home.

As you step out of your home door, there are even more giving opportunities surrounding you, no matter which degree of direction you turn.

It is up to you to grasp the opportunity. Like the Innisfree sales person who sees hundreds of people weekly, do your job well, and do it very well every day. That is massive giving, which will sow many seeds of favourable Peach Blossom Luck.

So there is no such thing as to why your Destiny isn't great. It was you who did not make the smart decision to do the right thing.

Try to let go of your resistance, and go embrace a more loving you, a more loving way of living. When you can bring happiness to more people, you will discover the limitless potential in your life and fall in love with yourself all over again. That will be one of the greatest love and respect and Peach Blossom Luck you can give yourself.

p.s. if you do not know what Peach Blossom Luck is, watch my video over here: https://youtu.be/ECUW9F8Cybg

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你停在了這條我們熟悉的街
Nǐ tíng zàile zhè tiáo wǒmen shúxī de jiē
You stopped at the street that we knew
把你準備好的台詞全念一遍
bǎ nǐ zhǔnbèi hǎo de táicí quán niàn yībiàn
Read all the lines you have prepared
我還在逞強 說著謊
wǒ hái zài chěngqiáng shuōzhe huǎng
I'm still trying to be brave to lie
也沒能力遮擋 你去的方向
yě méi nénglì zhēdǎng nǐ qù de fāngxiàng
Nor the ability to block the direction you go
至少分開的時候我落落大方
zhìshǎo fēnkāi de shíhou wǒ luòluò dàfāng
At least I graceful when we were apart

我後來都會選擇繞過那條街
wǒ hòulái dūhuì xuǎnzé ràoguò nà tiáo jiē
Later, I would choose to bypass the street
又多希望在另一條街能遇見
yòu duō xīwàng zài lìng yītiáo jiē néng yùjiàn
Hope to be able to meet you in another street
思念在逞強 不肯忘
sīniàn zài chěngqiáng bù kěn wàng
Thought to be brave, I never forget that
怪我沒能力跟隨 你去的方向
guàiwǒ méi nénglì gēnsuí nǐ qù de fāngxiàng
Blame me I don't have ability to follow you into that direction
若越愛越被動 越要落落大方
ruò yuè ài yuè bèidòng yuè yào luòluò dàfāng
The more passive love, the more generous

你還要我怎樣 要怎樣
nǐ hái yào wǒ zěnyàng yào zěnyàng
What do you want to me to do, what to do?
你突然來的短信就夠我悲傷
nǐ túrán lái de duǎnxìn jiù gòu wǒ bēishāng
You suddenly texting me which enough to make me sad
我沒能力遺忘 你不用提醒我
wǒ méi nénglì yíwàng nǐ bùyòng tíxǐng wǒ
I can't forget you, please don't remind me
哪怕結局就這樣
nǎpà jiéjú jiù zhèyàng
Even if it ends like this
我還能怎樣 能怎樣
wǒ hái néng zěnyàng néng zěnyàng
What can I do, what can I do?
最後還不是落得情人的立場
zuìhòu hái bùshì luòde qíngrén de lìchǎng
At end, still can't become special person
你從來不會想 我何必這樣
nǐ cóng lái bu huì xiǎng wǒ hébì zhèyàng
You never want to, why I like this?

我慢慢的回到自己的生活圈
wǒ màn man de huí dào zìjǐ de shēnghuó quān
I slowly back to my own life circle
也開始可以接觸新的人選
yě kāishǐ kěyǐ jiēchù xīn de rénxuǎn
Also began contact new candidates
愛你到最後 不痛不癢
ài nǐ dào zuìhòu bù tòng bù yǎng
Love you to the end, it's doesn't hurt
留言在計較 誰愛過一場
liúyán zài jìjiào shuí àiguò yīchǎng
Messages in the care, who loved one?
我剩下一張 沒後悔的模樣
wǒ shèng xià yī zhāng méi hòuhuǐ de múyàng
I have one remaining, doesn't-hurt appearance

你還要我怎樣 要怎樣
nǐ hái yào wǒ zěnyàng yào zěnyàng
What do you want to me to do, what to do?
你千萬不要在我婚禮的現場
nǐ qiān wàn bùyào zài wǒ hūnlǐ de xiànchǎng
You must not attend my wedding scene
我聽完你愛的歌 就上了車
wǒ tīng wán nǐ ài de gē jiù shàngle chē
I listened the song that you loved on the car
愛過你很值得
àiguò nǐ hěn zhídé
Love you well worth it

我不要你怎樣 沒怎樣
wǒ bùyào nǐ zěnyàng méi zěnyàng
I don't want you do something, do something
我陪你走的路你不能忘
wǒ péi nǐ zǒu de lù nǐ bùnéng wàng
I accompany you to the road you cannot forget
因為那是我 最快樂的時光
yīnwèi nà shì wǒ zuì kuàilè de shíguāng
Because that is my happiest time

後來我的生活還算理想
hòulái wǒ de shēnghuó hái suàn lǐxiǎng
Later, my life is still ideal
沒為你落到孤單的下場
méi wèi nǐ luò dào gūdān de xiàchǎng
Not for you to fall into the lonely end*
有一天晚上 夢一場
yǒu yītiān wǎnshàng mèng yīchǎng
Someday night, on a dream
你白髮蒼蒼 說帶我流浪
nǐ bái fà cāngcāng shuō dài wǒ liúlàng
Now you are gray-haired, said want to take me wandering
我還是沒猶豫 就隨你去天堂
wǒ háishì méi yóu yù jiù suí nǐ qù tiāntáng
I did not hesitate to go to heaven with you
不管能怎樣 我能陪你到天亮
bùguǎn néng zěnyàng wǒ néng péi nǐ dào tiānliàng
No matter what, I'm willing to accompany you to dawn

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For a bro that has been supporting my YouTube since he was a teenager.

Special Note :
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簡單點 說話的方式簡單點
Jiǎndān diǎn shuōhuà de fāngshì jiǎndān diǎn
Simply, talk simply
激進的情緒請省略
jījìn de qíngxù qǐng shěnglüè
Leave out the unnecessary emotions
你又不是個演員
nǐ yòu bùshì gè yǎnyuán
You are not an actress
別設計那些情節
bié shèjì nàxiē qíngjié
Don't design those plots

沒意見 我只想看看你怎麼圓
méi yìjiàn wǒ zhǐ xiǎng kàn kàn nǐ zěnme yuán
I don't mind, I just want to watch how you complete your lies
你難過的太表面 像沒天賦的演員
nǐ nánguò de tài biǎomiàn xiàng méi tiānfù de yǎnyuán
Your sad too superficial, just like a talentless actress
觀眾一眼能看見
guānzhòng yīyǎn néng kànjiàn
The audience can perceive with one glance

該配合你演出的我 演視而不見
gāi pèihé nǐ yǎnchū de wǒ yǎn shì'érbùjiàn
I'm supposed to complement your acting but I ignored it
在逼一個最愛你的人 即興表演
zài bī yīgè zuì'ài nǐ de rén jíxìng biǎoyǎn
You're demanding the person who loves you the most to improvise
什麼時候我們開始 收起了底線
shénme shíhòu wǒmen kāishǐ shōu qǐle dǐxiàn
When did we forget our bottom lines
順應時代的改變 看那些拙劣的表演
shùnyìng shídài de gǎibiàn kàn nàxiē zhuōliè de biǎoyǎn
Watching those poor performances with the change of times

可你曾經那麼愛我 幹嘛演出細節
kě nǐ céngjīng nàme ài wǒ gàn ma yǎnchū xìjié
You used to love me; why are you acting out the details?
我該變成什麼樣子 才能延緩厭倦
wǒ gāi biànchéng shénme yàngzi cáinéng yánhuǎn yànjuàn
How should I change so I can delay weariness
原來當愛放下防備後的這些那些
yuánlái dāng ài fàngxià fángbèi hòu de zhèxiē nàxiē
The real test in love
才是考驗
cái shì kǎoyàn
comes after we put down our guard

沒意見 你想怎樣我都隨便
méi yìjiàn nǐ xiǎng zěnyàng wǒ dū suíbiàn
I don't care, do whatever you want
你演技也有限 又不用說感言
nǐ yǎnjì yě yǒuxiàn yòu bùyòng shuō gǎnyán
Your acting is limited, and you don't have to give a speech
分開就平淡些
fēnkāi jiù píngdàn xiē
Let's separate peacefully




該配合你演出的我 演視而不見
gāi pèihé nǐ yǎnchū de wǒ yǎn shì'érbùjiàn
I'm supposed to complement your acting but I ignored it
別逼一個最愛你的人 即興表演
bié bī yīgè zuì'ài nǐ de rén jíxìng biǎoyǎn
You're demanding the person who loves you the most to improvise
什麼時候我們開始 沒有了底線
shénme shíhòu wǒmen kāishǐ méiyǒule dǐxiàn
When did we forget our bottom lines
順著別人的謊言 被動就不顯得可憐
shùnzhe biérén de huǎngyán bèidòng jiù bù xiǎndé kělián
If we passively follow other's lies, we won't look as pitiful

可你曾經那麼愛我 幹嘛演出細節
kě nǐ céngjīng nàme ài wǒ gàn ma yǎnchū xìjié
You used to love me; why are you acting out the details?
我該變成什麼樣子 才能配合出演
wǒ gāi biànchéng shénme yàngzi cáinéng pèihé chūyǎn
How should I change so I can complement your act?
原來當愛放下防備後的這些那些
yuánlái dāng ài fàngxià fángbèi hòu de zhèxiē nàxiē
The real test in love
都有個期限
dōu yǒu gè qíxiàn
Always has a deadline

其實台下的觀眾就我一個
qíshí tái xià de guānzhòng jiù wǒ yīgè
The truth is, I was your only audience
其實我也看出你有點不捨
qíshí wǒ yě kàn chū nǐ yǒudiǎn bù shě
Actually, I see you're little bit out of it
場景也習慣我們來回拉扯
chǎngjǐng yě xíguàn wǒmen láihuí lāchě
We're used to going back-and-forth endlessly
還計較著什麼
hái jìjiàozhù shénme
What else do you care about?

其實說分不開的也不見得
qíshí shuō fēn bù kāi de yě bùjiàn dé
Those that are said to be inseparable are hard to come by
其實感情最怕的就是拖著
qíshí gǎnqíng zuì pà de jiùshì tuōzhe
Indeed what we fear most is to be burdened
越演到中場戲越哭不出了
yuè yǎn dào zhōng chǎng xì yuè kū bù chūle
As we approach the climax, it becomes harder to cry
是否還值得
shìfǒu hái zhídé
Is it worth it?

該配合你演出的我 盡力在表演
gāi pèihé nǐ yǎnchū de wǒ jìnlì zài biǎoyǎn
When I am meant to complement your act, I’m striving to do so now
像情感節目裡的嘉賓 任人挑選
xiàng qínggǎn jiémù lǐ de jiābīn rèn rén tiāoxuǎn
Choose any of the actors of those romantic dramas
如果還能看出我有愛你的那面
rúguǒ hái néng kàn chū wǒ yǒu ài nǐ dì nà miàn
If I can see the side of me that loves you
請剪掉那些情節 讓我看上去體面
qǐng jiǎn diào nàxiē qíngjié ràng wǒ kàn shàngqù tǐmiàn
Please cut out the scenes to make me feel more presentable
可你曾經那麼愛我 幹嘛演出細節
kě nǐ céngjīng nàme ài wǒ gàn ma yǎnchū xìjié
You used to love me; why are you acting out the details?
不在意的樣子是我最後的表演
bù zàiyì de yàngzi shì wǒ zuìhòu de biǎoyǎn
My carelessness is my last act
是因為愛你我才選擇表演 這種成全
shì yīnwèi ài nǐ wǒ cái xuǎnzé biǎoyǎn zhè zhǒng chéngquán
It’s because I loved you, I chose to act with this purpose